Ivan Slaughter Jr. was born in Bethany, Missouri, to Ivan Slaughter Sr. and Jo Dorothy (Squires) Slaughter on February 12th, 1921. The young couple had just graduated from The University of Missouri and bought equipment and a farm with an enormous mortgage. Within a few years, they had lost everything and moved to Columbia, MO, where Ivan Sr. got his master’s degree. From there they moved to Eldon, MO where he was a county extension agent. They had two more boys (Frank and Joe) and a much younger daughter (Dorothy Joann). Farming was in a state of turmoil during those years and they moved up the scale, from job to job. The family focus was to collect enough livestock and machinery to make a new start.
Ivan Jr. went to twelve schools in twelve years, graduating from Greenwood High School in 1940. He had a partial scholarship to MU and went there until 1943, when he was taken from the Army Reserves to active duty. After Officer’s Candidate School, he and Margery Hablutezel were married. The young couple moved ten times until he was discharged as a first lieutenant liaison pilot in 1946. They then moved to the farm they lived on for all of their married life.
Ivan started teaching in Pleasant Hill schools, then transferred to Lee’s Summit. He continued teaching while farming on evenings and weekends for thirty years before retiring as a teacher, and maintained a working farm until his last days.
Ivan spent his limited free time as a 4-H leader, FFA advisor, and ecology club leader. He eagerly shared his knowledge with all: family, friends, and students. He loved to read, fish and hunt, especially coon hunt, and had some excellent dogs.
He and Margery continued their legacy with five children: Stan Slaughter (Linda); Bill Slaughter (Susan); John Slaughter (Sarah); Ella Hackney (Ed); and Mark Slaughter (Paula). They had seven grandchildren and sixteen great-grandchildren. Ivan and Margery treasured their time with family and were exceptionally proud of all of their achievements.
Ivan was a lifelong observer of both human and animal behavior – both wild and domesticated. He used a unique humor and spirit to bring love and knowledge. We as his family will miss our father but are comforted to know that his legacy will “carry on!”.
Ivan was preceded in death by his wife, Margery M. (Habluetzel) Slaughter; his parents, Ivan and Jo Dorothy Slaughter and two brothers, Joe Slaughter and Frank Slaughter.
He is survived by four sons, Stan Slaughter and wife Linda Chubbuck of Lee’s Summit, Missouri, Bill Slaughter and wife Susan of Skidmore, Missouri, John Slaughter and wife Sarah of Clovis, California and Mark Slaughter and wife Paula of Marshfield, Missouri; one daughter, Ella Hackney and husband Ed of Greenwood, Missouri; one sister, Joann Kennedy of Liberal, Missouri; Seven grandchildren, Sixteen great grandchildren, other relatives and many friends.
Cremation has been accorded. Services will be held at a later date.
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So sorry for your loss. He was a great guy.
So sorry for your loss. Try to remember all the good times. Your dad was a great man and teacher.
Ella and family,
I am so very sorry your dad has passed away. What a huge void for you all. He and your mom were wonderful people. I have such great memories of being with my grandparents and my parents visiting with them both. When I had Sam in kindergarten, your dad came to school on Veteran’s Day and put on a great display for the kids. Always the teacher and Veteran. He was a special man. He was proud of his family and loved you all very much. I will miss him too. Love to you all, Debi
What a wonderful life and legacy. He was a blessing to all who were fortunate enough to know him! God bless. He will certainly be missed by so many!
So sorry for you loss! He was a great man! I hope you’re able to find peace and comfort during this difficult time! Let us know if you need anything.
When we moved here, 26 years ago, Ivan and Marge came to greet us from our church. They were warm and welcoming to our family. Marge baked the most beautiful apple pie and brought it to us. 26 years and I still remember that beautiful and delicious pie. They were frequently greeters at our church, welcoming everyone that walked through the door.
If there was something going on in the kitchen, Marge was involved and Ivan would be on the clean up crew. They were great marriage role models with long lasting love for each other. I think of them often. We were blessed to have them among us and will be forever missed.
Ivan truly was a gift from God. I loved listening to him anytime but especially when he would do children’s sermons at church. He kept the kids mesmerized as the lesson he was teaching sank into their minds. I know the family will miss him and I know there is a great party welcoming him Home!🙏
One of the best teachers I ever had! He raised a wonderful family! My prayers are with the entire Slaughter family!
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